Sally u don't know me as i am pretty new to the board, I just wanted to say how sorry i am for your loss, I lost my brother 3 weeks ago, and i am still in denial, i would like to tell u that time eases all but it doesn't at least not in the beginning, maybe because my brother was so young (i don't know how old yours was) but with each day it is hurting me more. I sue hope you are doing well deb