Hi....I haven`t been here for a while and was so sad to come into this forum and see this thread. I so wish you well as you go through this turbulent time.You really do not need any of this harrowing uncertainty...but it has to be better than the strains of living with a partner who makes untold selfish demands of you. The times I have been through turbulence on a flight...I have emerged the other side to a scene of blue skies,a vast ocean and beautiful scenery.When the clouds have gone....I pray that this is what you will see Harley and Olcs....cos I reckon that ,knowing your wonderful creativeness Harlley, and your sense of "Reality " cs....and anyone else going through this....that you have been deprived of such a vision for a whileThe fog will lift and you can breathe good clean air again.
How lovely Therese to remind us that we sometimes are in danger of thinking we "know" what someone else wants...when in fact this may not be the case.
I know that I am guilty of that ..But I guess when the actions match the words that are spoken,there`s no mistaking what the situation is about.
Thinking of you both
Steff
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