She in on a ventilator, has a feeding tube, picc line and they are doing everything they can... which is so... sad as she is just not fighting for it.
My hubby wants my FIL to make the final decisons and my FIL wants my MIL back the way she was - do we see a huge disconnect here? Her kidneys were not doing well so that may take care of the decision. If she pulls through, she will be totally bedridden and even harder to take care of than before! And less of herself...