(((Xie))) You should be proud of yourself for accomplishing what you have. I am. When you're depressed and not feeling well, it's not easy, at all, doing minimal survival things, let alone cleaning. Let alone going through a loved one's belongings. It's so hard going through a loved one's belongings and letting go of them. I'm so glad you are able to do this.

The last few months I've had the same kind of problem - no emotional or physical energy to do anything at home, so now it's at the point I do just a small task each day, very much like you. Or, I should say, I try.

I hope you found some help with your financial worries. Love to you.