Silverlady do you have a trader joes? Maybe not but they have a lot of healthier prepared foods. I like the short cuts chicken,they have frozen turkey burgers,veggie burgers. Quick breakfast for dinner like omelettes are good. A bowl of soup and a sandwich can be nutritious. Could your husband and yourself come up with a plan for the week that both of you like? They even have pre made stir fry I think by Green Giant with the meat,veggies,rice. A few gadgets like The Foreman grill or a crockpot can help things be made quicker. Or for me I can make anything in a microwave. I like Amy's frozen foods too. There healthier frozen I think organic meals so there more expensive but in a pinch.
Melody I'm sure your mom is looking down on you with joy for all the work you have done. I wish though in general people would keep others weight or appearance comments to themselves. I have issues with comments and it still being hard for me. I think the world would be a better place if everyone focused on themselves unless asked or had something nice to say.