Agree that we do wander at times and need to watch - but things like groceries and day to day survival is important to help us deal with our disabilities.... also issues like dealing with insurance, doctors, day to day living etc. from each others is very helpful.... as we all face "special challenges".... and the "normal" people in our lives most often do not understand.... and sometimes may intertwine with a medical thread.
Completely off topic yes - should be on their own....