Welcome Home, Alena. Glad you found us.
I am so sorry for your seemingly lact of validation and/or DX. It sure seems to me that the MS DX process is harder than it used to be. Are your Docs, at least, giving you any meds for your symptoms?
Have you seen an MS specialist? Have you had an MRI with enhancement? Have you had an MRI of the brain and the spine? It's not unusual for MS to be present with no lesions showing.
Let us know how it goes for you and, in the meantime, we are here to listen and to help you deal with it. Take care.
Hugs,