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Old 11-14-2007, 08:04 PM
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Heart discomfort zones

Hey Bizi

I think i'd be uncomfortable too. It would feel too intimate for me given the context, especially with a bunch of people present. I even kinda get weirded out when they have love scenes on tv and my parents are watching with me for instance. Prude? i dunno. we have our boundaries.

Years back, I had a new friend at my house use the bathroom without closing the door. well i asked her afterwards if next time she could please shut the door. said she hadn't thought about it because she was comfortable with her own body. well i was pretty stunned and said something about custom or culture but i felt like i was somehow defective or that i had to question my comfort with my own body. that is a valid question.

but you know, i don't care if SHE's comfortable with her body, I'M not comfortable with HER body. SO THERE. It ain't against the law!!!

anyway, your class is over now whew. i like the idea of taking another class with a different instructor.



~ waves ~ who is comfortable with her own body and also comfortable closing the bathroom door.
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