Thank you so much Wakegirl!
I really enjoyed reading your reply. every single thing you wrote was ohhhhhhhhhhh.. so true!! I know it will be hard over the holidays. I am hoping Bill and me and our daughter will be invited over one of our two son's homes Christmas day. My mom cooks every Christmas and we are going over there Christmas Eve. I will try to take it easy. I don't ever want to do what I did (cleaning non stop like a mad woman), LOL and then paying for it 2 days latter. uggghhh... My house is at least cleaner for Thanksgiving tomorrow!
Thanks again Wakegirl!! ~Love, Desi