Your post is a blessing for ALL of us, heartfelt, to the point, unwaveringly positive. I will use it to remember to apply the principles of its message every day from now on. This place is such a good place to be for us PWP because of people like you. Sometimes we get depresseed over what we have lost, but your message comes forth to tell us that, no, don't be depressed, accept everything that comes at you with dignity, that the sorrows will heal and that it is OUR responsibility to make it so.
I just poured a beer, raise up my glass and say SKALL, or SCOLL or whatever, you know what i mean.
THANK YOU for the words that we all need to carry on, no matter how bad things seem.
cs