Hi G,

Am so sorry to hear your sad news. I think all of us understand the stress that TOS puts on relationships....and then on top of that, you had all the stress of your husband's illness to deal with as well. Maybe somewhere down the line, you guys will be able feel a little more tenderness towards each other when you've had time to reflect on how much the stress of the terrible year you had to endure together affected your relationship?

In the meantime, I am happy to hear that you seem to be at peace with the decision. You know you always have your friends here for support.

Take care.