Hello Mrs.Bear (and all!!),
My heart goes out to you.
The support you are receiving here is what helped me though those teenage years with my youngest son (who is now 24!)... back then, it was the depression and tourette forums for me.
In the 10+ years that I have participated in the old Forums and this one, I have seen advancements beyond our wildest dreams.
Here you will absorb very useful information - use what you know is right for you and your son and your family.
In my wildest dreams, I pray that there will one day be an easy fix for mental illness.
Your son is very lucky to have you as a mom.