I really think a new physio person is needed - the person sounds like a nosey busybody.

Ali needs to have supportive and accepting care givers.
These people, or that person do not fit that requirement that I can see.

Her posts here seem very mature to me.
I would think being limited and in pain with something like RSD would make anyone grow up fast.
Same as our other younger members, they are mature beyond their years. Most likely due to the circumstances of the condition...