Yeah.
Change her therapist and let the old one know you thought it was inappropriate for a therapist to use scare tatics on such a young child. my therapists have had words of encouragement on how to overcome obstacles that I may encounter. not gloom and doom tatics. That's what she has parents for. I know it's tough and hard going through these things but she may never be challenged by a buring house. And for the inevitable that lies ahead, with or without shortcomings, can you prepare for everything. It's a day by day exerience.

Lots of luck
(Broken Wings)