just a slightly different view on the question.. I know I have got very defensive when asked questions like that in the past - turns out after all the effort of creating hell finding out what and why they were asking me the questions it was because they actually wanted to check I was safe to be in the house on my own. It does feel very accusing when they ask things like that - as if they are trying to catch you out, that you are "pretending" etc but I know at least in my case they were just asking because they wanted to know if I needed someone in the house with me at all times or not.

Just a thought.

Love

Rosie xxxxx