Okay I will work on posting more, it's just so hard right now with things going so badly. Jackie is really acting out and hurting me, last night he was up at 4 am and after awhile started getting violent and throwing books and shoes. It's just so frustrating.

Thanks for the hugs bizi, to answer the question, I'll have to turn over his income to cover his group home living expenses so that will in effect halve our income so I will have to move from here, and Jack has said that he wouldn't want to stay together either WHEN this goes down so I don't know what I will do. If we'd be able to keep this place it would help us be able to bring him home on passes, but I doubt it will work out that way.

Anyway, I think he won't be living with us by his birthday next year not with how rough he's acting towards me.