bj...we love you cuz we want to. not cuz our mama said we had to.
you can always take time for yourself. lurk or don't even do that. but you know when you come back..there are going to be tons of hugs and lots of love waiting for you.
bj...we don't judge or make demands.
ok...i do...pet your kitty for me k?
hey..and we are family now.