givers and takers.
some of us are born givers. we attract the takers. if the time comes that we need to be given to...well..the takers just back off or disapear.

not just health problems cause this.

my dearest friend went *poof.

i was there for her when her husband left her. he has pd.(dx age 40) he decided that he wanted to find his first love before it was to late. she came for holidays. i changed up some traditions, becasue i knew she needed me. changed my workout times..my work schedule to be there for her.

then when my grandson was abandoned and i started raising him...*poof she was gone. when i need the support and friendship...the taker couldn't give.

i think the best friendships are made up of the givers. sometimes we have a hard time recieving...even in the worst of times. but with your group of giver friends...you don't have to have a wall up. we understand.

so cindy..yep..be leary...be on your guard..but keep being you...and hand over the chocolate!