Hi Frank.
Welcome. I too have bipolar disorder and chronic pain issues. And your case manager is right, there is no easy answer. We just do the best we can with what we have.
You have found a home with us and you can talk about anything here. To let you know there is a bipolar board on this site as well and we are very active and friendly if you would like to stop by.
Again welcome and feel free to post anytime!