Meh, your dad is just a kid, Erin. My dad is 85 and still thinks he's 12. You don't owe anyone an explanation for anything. If it's too much, don't do it, save yourself!

I've had that finger twitch thing a couple times too. It showed up one day and went away just as suddenly. I can't say that there was any activity that caused it to start or to stop, but I am glad when it isn't here. That is one of the most annoying things to me, spasticity. Drives me nuts sometimes. The eyelids is probably the one that makes me craziest, UGH!

I'm glad that you can still crochet and do things with your fingers. I miss mine a lot.

Hopefully, your flu feeling will go away quickly and leave you alone. Yuck.