Your husband sounds like my ex step dad. When my mom got divorced from him I was over his house and he went to make a tv dinner and was reading the instruction as was going to put the whole box the outside container in to. He put my cashmere sweater in the dryer. You have to watch the condiments especially fat free products like ketchup,fat fre mayo,dressing. Of course prepared product like soups,tv dinners,breads even. The fabreze thing is so funny. My ex bf it reminds me of. He would work out at the gym and spray cologne over his sweat. I used to say now you just stink like sweat with spray. Imagine how much young guys sweat. I could smell him from outside. I am like you very clean like beyond.He is lucky to have you.