I think this thread is very appropriate, espeically given the season. The last year has been full of ups and downs, and (i think) too much of me wallowing in my own pity. I have learned ALOT from y'all, and that is priceless.

I try, and will continue to try to teach and help others. Like Tam said, it may be just making someone (a certain mother-in-law *cough* *cough*) more compassionate and understanding towards those with a chronic illness. Maybe it teaches others to appreciate what they have. Heck, I've even learned to better enjoy the good days, or until recently, relatively good stretches of a week or more! I have learned alot- I used to be the first one to judge when a healthy looking person took a handicapped spot, or when someone who looked well claimed they hurt. I was super-quick to judge. And here I sit. Lesson learned, the hard way.

I know that I didn't stumble in here 13 months ago by accident.

thank you.