you guys are wonderful! me and rae are feeling better. and once I was able to think clearly I made my dh his favorite cheesecake and let him go out by himself. I appreciate him so much. If not for him I think I would of lost it by now. He does come straight home to us to help. I try extra hard to not complain about being sick or in pain. I also try extra hard to be sure there is nothing for him to do when he does get home. I hope someday I can show him how much i apprecaite him. any way...thanks for letting me rant at you all. BTW..I did jump up and down... and yes it did hurt but i felt emotionally better. lol

crystalina