I'm glad you're doing the painting, it is great to accomplish a goal. I'm sorry how your life has changed. Rsd opens and closes so many doors I get plumb mixed up. My docs told me to find a hobby for my hand or I could lose it, and I found I could carve wood. It has helped me get through the obstacles rsd imposes. I hope your rsd gets better, and I'm really glad to see you.
I'm looking forward to grandchildren.
Take care,