Dear Befuddled,

My hubby and his siblings got into a big mess about inheritance when his father died a couple of years ago.

He stopped talking to a few of them because he got too upset. He figured out that they were deliberately pushing his buttons.

He hired a lawyer and let the lawyer handle everything. The lawyer is very nice and polite and never pushes buttons.


Do you have activities that can calm you? Or that can at least bring you into a less racing state?

I hope that you sleep.

M.