I agree with everyone else, and if I were you, Marilyn, I wouldn't give up on my quest. When people are asked about an idea which they haven't though out before, they can sometimes answer in uncharacteristic ways. Plus, no matter what you ever do, there will always be some who will not agree. Not because they are bad or your idea is bad, it's often just a misunderstanding or maybe a result of a bad experience that someone had before. Keep trying to expand your group, because it sounds to me like a wonderful idea! And when anyone disagrees, just smile at them nicely and thank them for their input. I'm sure that there are others in your church who would love the idea of secret friends. Good luck to you, Marilyn, and may God bless all your efforts and keep your spirits lifted.

Idealist