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Originally Posted by Nikko
It's just a mental break I need, she doesn't understand that.  The physical part of cleaning, doing her meds, making sure she eats, laundry, shopping, helping her with her showers,cleaning her commode, she uses that because it is easier for her she says then going to the bathroom, which is very close. If I say anything, she says YOU are my caregiver, I just want her to be able to do things that I know she can do for herself,I can handle the rest of what I mentioned, although that would be a nice break too. |
Nikko,
Put up with only what you are willing to put up with and not one bit more.
Who does she thinks she is???????
Call the county/state and get someone in to help you. I forget what it is called, but the government will provide a few services for someone in your situation.
M.