Nikko

Try going about this a little different.

When you contact the agencies for help for her.

DO it this way.

THey also have a program in many states called caregiver help. Or respite.

So why don't you do this.

See about what you could get.

Call the agency and ask about caregiver respite help. This way when they
come they are relieving you. GIving you a day off or a few hours. TO go
do something else.

It might be to go out to lunch, just to take a nice afternoon at the spa.

Things like this. You can explain it to your mother, that you are entitled
to this. And whether she likes it or not you are using this service.

Donna