Momz, I'm so sorry to hear that you're having to go through all this on top of having TOS, that's definitely a lot to deal with! I wish I had some good advice to offer you but unfortunately I don't. I went through a lot of trouble with my son when he was a teenager....drugs, suspension from school, legal trouble....he ended up in jail soon after he turned 18 and spent several years there. He's been out for several years now and will be graduating from college in May...with a 4.0 GPA & is doing great!!! There's still hope for your daughter, maybe with time things will get better! Just keep on being a tough parent, that's the best thing you can do for her. I never thought I'd see the day but my son actually said that "tough love" was the best thing for him.