know there were threads on this before, but since we don't have access to the old threads, can we start a new one?

I'm 39 years old...my son is 15...and I'm soooooo missing that second baby that I always wanted and never had. Now that I'm with someone that I really feel I will be with forever, who also wants a child, I am seriously considering it....if not for this danged disease.

I know there is the possibility of having a child while having rsd...and also the possibility of it bringing on remission. But what if it doesn't? And what about the pain meds? I've been reading up on it, and reading that some people stay on the duragesic with no harm to the baby.

Any opinions? Any advice? Anyone want to yell at me for even THINKING about it?

Hugs
LisaM