hey paula,
acccck we are all a little sensitive from time to time, so i'm sure we can work things out amicably, it's all cool.
but, if it's not going to work out and becomes a personal type of thing, it may be a good idea to attempt to resolve the conflict outside of the forums because we all have a lot on our plates.

no one wants to be discouraged from going someplace due to turmoils, sometimes, we have too much 'reality', negatives things going on and just want a few positive experiences on a darkened night, quiet visit to catch up on friends, information and get outside of our own realms for a while.

you kind of have to be careful about asking for opinions, because they're like tails, (butts for the southern speaking impaired, lol) everybody has one and some of them stink

love ya hon
tammy