Cin,
I hate to do this cause it's such a serious subject and I am in NO WAY making fun...
but I woke up today and the first thing that came into my mind when I sat down for daily meditation in the meditation room was Marshall Tucker Band's song...Do you remember "Can't You See, oh can't you see..what that woman's been doing to me"
When I was much younger and sillier, I used to sing it as ....
"Can't you peeeee? Oh can't you pee..."
( end of OT silliness!)