Terry,

I'm sorry to read about all of the pain you've suffered.

I don't know if you might see or have seen a PM (Pain Management) doctor. It might be possible for one to do as you've mentioned re: the nerves. There is a non-invasive procedure: RF (radiofrequencing), which temporarily deadens the nerves. I say temporary because most generally the nerves will regenerate, but, for many the (positive) effects of the procedure can last from a few weeks to several (18) months.

If you've not seen or visited there is a CP (Chronic Pain) forum here:

http://neurotalk.psychcentral.com/forum10.html

There is also a SD (Spinal Disorders) forum:

http://neurotalk.psychcentral.com/forum22.html

There are people here who do understand the pain you've felt and are supportive.

I'm sorry that you had to find the forums here, but please know that you won't feel as alone as you have - because people here can relate to how you've felt and the pain you are experiencing.