Hi Mama..I dont know what kind of surgery you are going for..Forgive me if Ive read about it somewhere and forgot..Ive got so much on my plate right now that I dont know which end is up..Surgery is scarey, period..If this surgery is going to give you a better quality of life, then there is definately some hope in it for you..You will be in my thoughts and prayers, and I hope that you heal up quick and that the surgery solves whatever the problem is..This is not an easy road sometimes, and I certainly feel for you..If we only had the magic wand