Thanks so much for all the feedback. I really appreciate it, I am glad I vented about it now.Yes, she will be staying with us. Dirk said she is a typical teenager slob.I will deal with it, or he will deal with it.It's his baby girl, so I need to understand that, daddy's little girl, I once was.Anyway, this too has passed, since I got it out in the open.Thanks again..........Nikkop.s. my icons aren't working for some reason..................