I posted in the other thread, but I'll repeat in case you don't read the other one again. I'm just so very sorry you are having all of these issues and all of this pain. It's just not fair that one person has to go thru so much. And you have been through too much of it. Hopefully he'll be able to do the work thru the cystoscope and it will all be over soon.
Then maybe next time I make it to your neck of the woods we'll go on an all day shopping binge!
Keep us posted.
Billye