Roxie:
I forgot to tell you that the lady across the street from me (Her name is Jackie) and she's 72 and looks 50, and still goes to work.
Well she had this bladder thing done a few years ago. She had described that they put some kind of sling thing inside her to hold up her bladder. Worked just fine.
Just thought I'd share this with you.
And here's a beautiful image to keep in your brain. Nice and calming.