I don't have any reflux experience, but have also heard cow's milk is a big culprit. I wanted to suggest you cross-post over on the Child Neurology forum (
http://forums.braintalk2.org/forumdisplay.php?f=9). However, I get the feeling that most of the Child Neurology folks are migrating back to Original BrainTalk. So, I'd also suggest posting there, on the original Child Neurology forum (
http://brain.hastypastry.net/forums/...play.php?f=115 - if you haven't already been here, you'll have to register. You can use your same name as here.). Lots of those folks have reflux experience, and they might be able to tell you about doctors, too.