Poor doggie!!! When I lost my oldest dog last spring, I couldn't imagine replacing her...but we finally did last month and she is a bundle of joy. Have you considered a puppy...I know it sounds morbid to replace her now...but in preparation? We humans know our animals and can feel when the time is near. How sad for you and the kids! Our young dog who survived her 'sister' was such an important factor in helping to get over our loss at that time...and the new puppy is more for her than us...she was very lonely and we just couldn't stand it....

Your DH sounds like he is running away from life....I'm with you, time to man up, come home and be a supportive husband and father. I pray this happens soon. You have a right to be upset and feeling dismissed. Maybe we should 'box his ears"

Hope you feel better soon today....a new day has dawned and despite everything, it is a gift we must not take for granted (easier said than done!)