it is difficult to struggle along when you dont feel believed by your MD. To do so when not being believed by your spouse is horrible! I know most hubbies want black and white, here or not here, it is or it isnt kind of answers. With MS it isnt that clear. it takes time and its a disease of comparing today to yesterday. This test against that test. its a long haul for most to get a dx. I am glad your hubbie is starting to see that you are struggling, and not just seeking attention. I hope you get some answers.