After 17 years of marriage..over the past 5 or more..hubby and I dont exchange on Vday....I have always told him never to buy flowers on this day..as they hike up flower prices for Vday......told him to surprise me on the any day type flowers....

we make each other a card each year, for Vday...that is our special Vday....

some times I have made him a coupon book for the year...like I usually do for Xmas but if for Vday..start with feb...good for 20min massage and then each month something different....and very personal..between the two of you...he always loves this gift..hugss,sarah