look to the future, Moose...
you and your little men will get through this, with grace, a positive attitude, and a little help from your friends.
despite MUCH trial and tribulation, therapists, court hearings, and trauma, illnesses, and other assorted handicaps, me and my kids made it through.
one kid is headed to graduate school, one's travelling the world, and one's in college.
it didn't SEEM like we'd come through at times, but we managed to handle everything life tossed at us.
deep breathing, meditation, shared quality time, many hugs, story-reading, and bonding stuff are what did the trick.