WE are supposed to be here to help each other with matters in our lives that can sometimes be helped with a clear exchange of ideas. I have seen incidents in the prior bt where mods were clearly telling members of the forum to shut up. I have seen it happen to others and I know I was told the same on several occasion.

Abusing or obscene language clearly isn't the way to deal with a matter in in an adult and considerate way. Sad to say that it should be easy to be considerate of others but it is sadly no the case sometimes. there are clearly people in charge in some instances who have lost their prospective and need to decide if being a moderator is what they really want to be. If they can't deal with the fire of the position they owe it to al of us to let others deal with it and hopefully it will improve the exchange of ideas and information.