((((((N)))))),



Just wanted to give you a hug (see above) and give you something to think about.

I had to go to court against my son quite a few years ago (we've since patched up our problems). A victim's advocate came with me. Believe me, it helps to have someone with you when you're in a sitch like that.

I remember when I was divorcing my husband 20-something years ago. He became very theatening/dangerous when I announced I was leaving him. My 'shrink du jour' gave me some very good advice -->> "stonewall him; stay away from him."

I know you're kind of stranded out there without all the support that you would have back home, try to get someone to come with you. It'll help.

Hugs (and love). Wish you weren't having to go through all this. But, after you have "gone through," you'll be glad you did.

Barb