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Originally Posted by bizi
but how to get from attaching pain to your memeories of your loved one.
YOu get to have memories and not have pain.
love bizi
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For me it took time, at least 7 years, and the ability to forgive him.
When I was finally able to forgive him I could start remembering the happiness we had shared. There is still sadness at the loss but there are times when I simply think of a happy thought.
And I cherish those moments when I can simply remember and smile, and as Peter Pan says, it only takes a happy thought to fly.