There IS a forum here for sexual disorders - anyone seen it? Perhaps that could be broad enough to include those of us "disabled" by pain? I find it really tough cause touch most anywhere on my body causes intense pain due to allodynia. I think it's worth bringing up to the mods/Doc John or Kimmie Dawn to either add Sexually Disabled or something similar to the Sexual Disorders forum title, or make it a stand alone forum.

As long as people are adults and treat it respectfully, there should be a place for it here. If they don't then at least we tried, right? I'm sure we're not the only group of people here grappling with this, and there is a huge need to at least mourn the loss and hopefully find some new ways of intimacy, whether or not it actually involves making love.

Anne? Victoria? One of you up for presenting the idea? I think you've done a great thing bringing this out into the open!

beth

Edit - Great minds here - Jo posted right before I did! Gotta love it here, the admin and mods are SO responsive!!