Liz and others I am glad for your own personal safety and protection and confidentiality of this issue, that you deleted your posts.
This forum can be viewed by all ages and some have no idea what TOS and other diseases can do to couples. All they read is PG13 or ?? rated posts.
There are also men on this forum reading. Count me old fashion but I do not care for strangers reading about my sex life. I do not want to read about there's.
I know when there is a personal issue on my forum..there is an exchange of personal e-mails via PM and a group of ladies do their private talking via personal e-mail and CC the others. It works very well. They feel much safer this way and their privacy is safeguarded.
Signed: No Prude Prissy here.