Watching this with interest. I don't have TOS, but can relate to the pain-related issues. Or should I say, used to be able to relate, but then I'd have to wisecrack about how long it's been and then I'd get in trouble. Oops.

At first I thought a passworded forum might be the answer but then...that would be a whole other difficult issue to address because then who would decide who could have the password and who couldn't. So, that's a moot suggestion.

I'm sorry for the types of pain you have. Pain is a nasty thing.