Mylegshurt...I don't understand why you are afraid of the anti-seizure meds. I can attest to the fact that they do help with nerve pain and while I have been over-medicated in the past by a neuro that just wasn't paying attention, if you are pro-active and ensure that you are having your blood levels tested there shouldn't be a problem. I have been on Tegretol for 14 years for seizures with NO side effects whatsoever until the neuro added Neurontin and didn't keep track of my levels. I have had some side effects unfortunately but I am happy to say that things are back on track now. The dr. has decided to stop the Neurontin and start Lyrica (low dose) and see if the pain level improves. It might be worth a try honey...you seem like an intelligent patient that is capable of ensuring that your levels are watched...remain pro-active and you might get the relief you are so desperately looking for! Good luck and I hope that your doctor's might consider this option.