Nikki, I will try to scan or find a copy of the power whell. How the abusers use the power to get the anxiety and our feelings not having control. HE can no longer victimize you physically, so he does it by using the courts. This time teh Judge will not allow a continuance with or without a PD he will go on. As you mention he will likely take a plea. That will save you the truma of testifying.

I am taking ativan a half pill daily, and one pill a day when it is flaring. I do have a strong front, but when it comes to being personally victimized, it is tough to keep the skin thick, for a pro at me taht as a police officer testified on behalf of victims. I was the one that found the offenders stalking them and hiding in the bushes and held them at gun point, they end up with pee'd pants.

But, when it happened to me, I had no support from the very system I stood for!
I am with ya gal!
Big hugs, even if you are anxious inside, you keep the chin up, stead fass, and know they have him squirming!
Di